At a point of time in somebodys life they ask themselves what does this all mean. What does my life mean? Whether thats studying for a test,making some tough decisions or just living life we all face this question. In these times it helps to look around at the love and people we have to share our lives with and see that we make a difference to someone. But for some we aren't so lucky. Wheather its the wife whos husband travels, the mom whos kids graduated, or the college student just trying to make something of themselves we all get lonely and wonder, why?
Why did God think i would make a difference? Will I? What can i do to change this world. Lonliness gives you time to contemplate these things and although it wouldn't have been my choice im greatful for the silence. Sitting at home nightly studying, cooking, or watching old reruns alone in a new state, a new city and sharing my thoughts mostly with myself i see why people are so afraid to be alone. Its the qustions that come up when you dont have anyone to share it with, or the fear when you realize that even if you have someone they may be absent. Its the times when you feel the vulnerbility of why your important that you grow, change and if you want grasp for something bigger. Its the lonliness that propels me to want to succeed and change a life. Its hard and the erie silence can either make you sad that you dont have anyone to share it with or greatful for the time you have to think about yourseld for once and what you can do that will mean something.
Tuesday, October 25, 2011
Tuesday, October 4, 2011
A new love language
It has been 2 months since i posted my last blog and i cannot wait to start up again, So much life can happen in 60 days. School has started, the leaves are changing and i am well on my way to information overload due to anatomy and chemistry! With all the aside something struck my mind as a sat finishing a homework assignement tonight. Learning is diffucult. Especially when you add emotions into the mix. Learning a new comcept in school is challenging becasue there is a lot of new information you need to study. Concepts that you've never learned before and you want to absorb it mostly fore a good grade on the next exam. Although after the test is over you can realx and forget most of the information you tried so very hard to remember.
Learning a new language can also be very hard. You must absorb it, memorize it and train you tounge to talk in a different way. The only way to really get good at a new language is to practice daily. Most people can learn by simply being emmersed into a new culture and hearing is day after day. With language practice makes perfect. When you learn you might slip up and say something you didn't mean, language is a trial and error kinda thing until you becomemore comofrtable with the new sensations and until it practically becomes second nature.I enjoy talking a lot but learning a new language would drive me crazy becasue it would limit what i could say and i would stumble to find the meanings for things. Emotionally i feel like im learning a new language. Relationships are a crazy web of trial and error. Speaking in a language you learned from the world, from you parents or in the past just wont work. Love is the new language and heck...its hard.
Its easy to learn material becasue there is no emotions holding you back from letting you tung slip, say what you didn't mean and regret it later. Emotions play a part in making us so passionate and using the right language to express that is key in importance.
Learning you and your partners love language can drastically change the course of a somewhat broken relationship. When you learn the others way to speak you understand where they are coming from. Its hard becasue you must practice everyday and many times you will fail but the practice is what makes it love. Without failure and trying again thre would be no love. Its all about forgiving a slip, and understanding that learning new material isn't as easy as it seems.
The love language i learn in my relationship is so different than what you will need to learn for yours. But as soon as you get the hang of it, errors will become sparse. They will still happen but you will be able to talk fluently with passion just like you did in your own love language. Until you learn frustrations will fly and giving up might seem like an option. but persevere, becasue the knowledge,love and satisfaction that comes from learning how to communitcate is worth all the slip-ups in the beginning.
Learning a new language can also be very hard. You must absorb it, memorize it and train you tounge to talk in a different way. The only way to really get good at a new language is to practice daily. Most people can learn by simply being emmersed into a new culture and hearing is day after day. With language practice makes perfect. When you learn you might slip up and say something you didn't mean, language is a trial and error kinda thing until you becomemore comofrtable with the new sensations and until it practically becomes second nature.I enjoy talking a lot but learning a new language would drive me crazy becasue it would limit what i could say and i would stumble to find the meanings for things. Emotionally i feel like im learning a new language. Relationships are a crazy web of trial and error. Speaking in a language you learned from the world, from you parents or in the past just wont work. Love is the new language and heck...its hard.
Its easy to learn material becasue there is no emotions holding you back from letting you tung slip, say what you didn't mean and regret it later. Emotions play a part in making us so passionate and using the right language to express that is key in importance.
Learning you and your partners love language can drastically change the course of a somewhat broken relationship. When you learn the others way to speak you understand where they are coming from. Its hard becasue you must practice everyday and many times you will fail but the practice is what makes it love. Without failure and trying again thre would be no love. Its all about forgiving a slip, and understanding that learning new material isn't as easy as it seems.
The love language i learn in my relationship is so different than what you will need to learn for yours. But as soon as you get the hang of it, errors will become sparse. They will still happen but you will be able to talk fluently with passion just like you did in your own love language. Until you learn frustrations will fly and giving up might seem like an option. but persevere, becasue the knowledge,love and satisfaction that comes from learning how to communitcate is worth all the slip-ups in the beginning.
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