Everyone has their own opinion on your life. You can try and ignore the fact that everyone has something to say about the way your living your life but the fact is your never going to be doing everything right to make everyone happy. Perfection is a monster and striving to appear perfect to others can drain you. Too many times i have been concerned about what others might think of my decisions. This fear has made me choose to do things that dont truley make me happy. Nobody can judge you or make you unhappy without your concent so therefore i want to try something new. Not caring could be the best thing and understanding that your mistakes make you stronger. The opinions on others can only affect you as much as you let them and living your life to the best of your ability is all you can do.
I think you have to get to a point in this life where other people stop affecting you and you can step back and realize that those who really love you will not judge you harshly. In my relationships, and decisions i have been afraid that others will judge what i do. In these next upcoming months i have begun to realize that caring too heavily about what others think can be exhausting and not worth the effort. Knowing yourself, your relationship and your goals you can live for yourself without the stress of what others will think haunting you. I want to make decisions fully aware that i will be judged no matter what i choose but at the same time finding peace in letting people think what they want.
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